We Tend To Forget Friends Can Break Our Hearts Too.

Often times when we think about heartache, we automatically link it to a significant other or a loss of a loved one. We rarely assume the sorrow is over a friend or companion.

I think we tend to forget that friends can break our hearts too…

Our friends play an important roll in our lives. They’re there when something good happens and they’re there when the bad times come around. These are the people we hangout with and talk to on a daily or weekly basis. We even chose them to be in our lives to begin with, so why is it so hard to believe that friends can break our hearts too?!?!Β 

Maybe some think it’s silly or impossible, but it’s not! We’re human and we’re going to feel sadness or pain when someone close to us hurts us.

I know for me, anytime I get into a fight with one of my close friends, it bothers me until we make up. I might not always show it or express it to that person, but I’m definitely feeling that heartache everyday. I know it may come as a surprise with my strong personality, but I hate fighting! I HATE ARGUING! I hate the back & forth bullshit. I hate it all! It’s so time consuming and if you’re like me always wanting the last word, then it’s SUPER TIME CONSUMING x100!

Having disagreements with your friends is completely normal, as we all share different points of views and interests. But fighting with your friends SUCK! Especially if it’s over a small dispute. Now you guys aren’t talking for days because you can’t put your pride aside! All I’m saying is, think if the argument is really worth it? Agree to disagree if need be! But all in all, think about the other person next time. Could this fight be breaking your friends’ heart? Life is way too short to go hours or days without talking to your loved ones!

P.S. This is about stupid, petty, and foolish arguments that can always be fixed! If your friend really fucked you over or did some shady shit, PLOT REVENGE FOR THAT BITCH!

Xox

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  1. Last year was the year of friend heartbreaks. I lost about 5 friends last year, and it was one of the most heartbreaking moments in my life. At the same time I had also lost someone I was dating. Looking back at it now, I’m so happy to be rid of those people who weren’t there for me when I needed them most. I have a super close knit group of friends now, and I love it xxx

    Melina | http://www.melinaelisa.com

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  2. This is so true. I have been heartbroken by my friends so so so many times. And not just silly stuff but serious situations. It’s crazy that when someone speaks of heartbreak, we immediately think of it being related to their significant other, like you said.
    Loved this post! Also, REALLY loved your PS! πŸ˜‚ πŸ’•

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  3. It took me a lot to realize that friends are just like any other relationships that take time and effort to build. I remember ending my friendship with my childhood best friend because she chose her new boyfriend over me, and to this day, I still miss our friendship and would lowkey hope she would hit me up.

    Friends definitely can cause a heartbreak as well, especially the close ones.

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  4. I love your bluntness!
    I feel like some of my friendships have ended in heartbreak but I’ve learned something from each. Most importantly I learned that I can be the shady friend too! It’s so easy to play the victim but we aren’t always innocent- I agree that we should put aside our pride πŸ™‚

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  5. I was just telling a friend that only the ones you love can really hurt you. Friends and family can hurt just as bad as a boyfriend/partner. Strangers never hurt me as bad as those I love because my heart is in it. Good reminder to forgive and talk it out (or plan revenge lol). Great opening photo of painted crying Kardashian by the way.
    Teri – http://millennialadulting.life

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  6. Never really thought about it like this! But you are totally right! Your friends are a big part of your life and it’s always a shame if there is ever a fallout.

    I wish you all the happiness in your friendships old and new!

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