Often times when we think about heartache, we automatically link it to a significant other or a loss of a loved one. We rarely assume the sorrow is over a friend or companion.
I think we tend to forget that friends can break our hearts too…
Our friends play an important roll in our lives. They’re there when something good happens and they’re there when the bad times come around. These are the people we hangout with and talk to on a daily or weekly basis. We even chose them to be in our lives to begin with, so why is it so hard to believe that friends can break our hearts too?!?!
Maybe some think it’s silly or impossible, but it’s not! We’re human and we’re going to feel sadness or pain when someone close to us hurts us.
I know for me, anytime I get into a fight with one of my close friends, it bothers me until we make up. I might not always show it or express it to that person, but I’m definitely feeling that heartache everyday. I know it may come as a surprise with my strong personality, but I hate fighting! I HATE ARGUING! I hate the back & forth bullshit. I hate it all! It’s so time consuming and if you’re like me always wanting the last word, then it’s SUPER TIME CONSUMING x100!
Having disagreements with your friends is completely normal, as we all share different points of views and interests. But fighting with your friends SUCK! Especially if it’s over a small dispute. Now you guys aren’t talking for days because you can’t put your pride aside! All I’m saying is, think if the argument is really worth it? Agree to disagree if need be! But all in all, think about the other person next time. Could this fight be breaking your friends’ heart? Life is way too short to go hours or days without talking to your loved ones!
P.S. This is about stupid, petty, and foolish arguments that can always be fixed! If your friend really fucked you over or did some shady shit, PLOT REVENGE FOR THAT BITCH or just let them go!