Often times when we think about heartache, we automatically link it to a significant other or a loss of a loved one. We rarely assume the sorrow is over a friend or companion.
I think we tend to forget that friends can break our hearts too…
Our friends play an important roll in our lives. They’re there when something good happens and they’re there when the bad times come around. These are the people we hangout with and talk to on a daily or weekly basis. We even chose them to be in our lives to begin with, so why is it so hard to believe that friends can break our hearts too?!?!
Maybe some think it’s silly or impossible, but it’s not! We’re human and we’re going to feel sadness or pain when someone close to us hurts us.
I know for me, anytime I get into a fight with one of my close friends, it bothers me until we make up. I might not always show it or express it to that person, but I’m definitely feeling that heartache everyday. I know it may come as a surprise with my strong personality, but I hate fighting! I HATE ARGUING! I hate the back & forth bullshit. I hate it all! It’s so time consuming and if you’re like me always wanting the last word, then it’s SUPER TIME CONSUMING x100!
Having disagreements with your friends is completely normal, as we all share different points of views and interests. But fighting with your friends SUCK! Especially if it’s over a small dispute. Now you guys aren’t talking for days because you can’t put your pride aside! All I’m saying is, think if the argument is really worth it? Agree to disagree if need be! But all in all, think about the other person next time. Could this fight be breaking your friends’ heart? Life is way too short to go hours or days without talking to your loved ones!
P.S. This is about stupid, petty, and foolish arguments that can always be fixed! If your friend really fucked you over or did some shady shit, PLOT REVENGE FOR THAT BITCH or just let them go!
Xox
La Flare
The Girl in All Leopard 
Haha! I like your p.s.! It’s true, all relationships take work even friendships.
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Thanks so much for reading! 💕
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Last year was the year of friend heartbreaks. I lost about 5 friends last year, and it was one of the most heartbreaking moments in my life. At the same time I had also lost someone I was dating. Looking back at it now, I’m so happy to be rid of those people who weren’t there for me when I needed them most. I have a super close knit group of friends now, and I love it xxx
Melina | http://www.melinaelisa.com
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Thanks so much for reading! 💕
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your p.s. had my lol! 😀 it’s a good post about a rough subject.
Joy at The Joyous Living
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Thanks so much for reading! ☺💕
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This is so true. I have been heartbroken by my friends so so so many times. And not just silly stuff but serious situations. It’s crazy that when someone speaks of heartbreak, we immediately think of it being related to their significant other, like you said.
Loved this post! Also, REALLY loved your PS! 😂 💕
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Thanks so much for reading !💕💕😘😘😘
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It took me a lot to realize that friends are just like any other relationships that take time and effort to build. I remember ending my friendship with my childhood best friend because she chose her new boyfriend over me, and to this day, I still miss our friendship and would lowkey hope she would hit me up.
Friends definitely can cause a heartbreak as well, especially the close ones.
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Thanks so much for reading! ☺💕💕💕
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I love this post! I’ve made some shady friends recently which have really hurt me, your post really helped to make me smile 🙂
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Awh, glad it helped !💕
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I love your bluntness!
I feel like some of my friendships have ended in heartbreak but I’ve learned something from each. Most importantly I learned that I can be the shady friend too! It’s so easy to play the victim but we aren’t always innocent- I agree that we should put aside our pride 🙂
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I was just telling a friend that only the ones you love can really hurt you. Friends and family can hurt just as bad as a boyfriend/partner. Strangers never hurt me as bad as those I love because my heart is in it. Good reminder to forgive and talk it out (or plan revenge lol). Great opening photo of painted crying Kardashian by the way.
Teri – http://millennialadulting.life
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Thanks so much for reading !!!💕💕💕
The picture of kim is actually my mouse pad at work haha😊
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Never really thought about it like this! But you are totally right! Your friends are a big part of your life and it’s always a shame if there is ever a fallout.
I wish you all the happiness in your friendships old and new!
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Awh, thank you ! & thanks so much for reading ! 💕💕😊
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I agree friends can break your heart as well. Anybody you open up and give your heart to can. Pride is the main aspect that ruins a good bond I definitely agree.
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Thank you so much for reading!
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This is so true! Our friends can indeed hurt us the most because they mean the most. Thank you for sharing!
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Thank you so much for reading!💖
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Not many people think about this. A good friend of mine since childhood just one day stopped talking to me. I never got an explanation and the last time we talked we didn’t argue and it was a regular conversation. Sometimes it still bothers me, mostly because I don’t know what I did (if I even did anything) but it hurt for a while.
But this was an entertaining read 🙂
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I can definitely relate! I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum. But you learn to outgrow people who aren’t growing with you and maybe it was for the best you both went your separate ways. Thank you so much for reading !🖤
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I hear you on this as I have been ghosted by a lot of people I thought were friends. I find that true friends are hard to come by nowadays.
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They really are! You’re probably better off without them! Thank you so much for reading!🖤
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Losing my first best friend was a huge heart break at the time, and we should start using that language when were talking about friendships. They take all the effort and work and mean as much as romantic relationship
Ash | https://thisdreamsalive.com
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They really do! And getting into a fight or a fall out with a friend can hurt just as badly as with a significant other. Thank you so much for reading! 🖤
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This is so true!! Friendships are a type of relationships, so why can’t we feel heartbreak over a fight? Some of the fights I’ve had with friends have been depressing than ones I’ve had with boyfriends. Friendships are so important, just as important as romantic relationships, that’s it’s a shame more people focus on the romantic ones.
Emily | https://www.thatweirdgirllife.com
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Thank you so much for reading!
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This is great! I just love your PS… so true!
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Thank you !❤❤
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